,,C\u00e2nd crezi intr-o idee, mintea ta caut\u0103 metode de a o pune \u00een practica.” spune dr. David Schwartz.
\u0218i tot el spune c\u0103 \u0219i invers este la fel de valabil:
,,C\u00e2nd crezi c\u0103 un lucru este imposibil, mintea ta incepe s\u0103 caute motive prin care s\u0103 demonstreze c\u0103 e imposibil.”<\/p>\n\n\n\n
A\u0219a e c\u0103 e fascinant cum func\u021bioneaz\u0103 mintea noastr\u0103?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
De multe ori m\u0103 g\u00e2ndesc c\u0103 ne dorim un pe\u0219ti\u0219or de aur care s\u0103 ne \u00eendeplineasc\u0103 dorin\u021bele dar \u00een realitate avem ,,la purtator” un astfel de pe\u0219ti\u0219or de aur: mintea noastr\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Uite, vreau s\u0103 te \u00eentreb ceva\ud83e\udd14\ud83e\udd14\ud83e\udd14.
( \u0218tii c\u0103 imi place s\u0103 adresez \u00eentreb\u0103ri \u0219i c\u0103 aceasta e practica mea cea mai frecvent\u0103 \u00een programele lunare sau c\u00e2nd lucram unu la unu. Eu \u0219tiu c\u0103 intrebarile ajut\u0103 oamenii s\u0103 treac\u0103 la urm\u0103torul nivel de con\u0219tientizare.\u2764\u0218i, m\u0103sura \u00een care ai trecut la urmatorul nivel de con\u0219tientizare e reflectat\u0103 in ac\u021biune.\u2764)<\/p>\n\n\n\n
A\u0219adar, uite, te intreb ceva:<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u021ai-ai cump\u0103rat vreodat\u0103 un aparat casnic sau un telefon \u0219i, de cum ai venit acas\u0103 ai ap\u0103sat butonul ON \u0219i ai \u00eenceput s\u0103 \u00eel butonezi f\u0103r\u0103 s\u0103 ii cite\u0219ti manualul de utilizare?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Dac\u0103 da, scrie te rog un Da in Comentarii.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Mie mi s-a int\u00e2mplat: \u00eent\u00e2i butonez, pe principiul,,sigur m\u0103 descurc” \u2026
Apoi dup\u0103 ce tot incerc \u0219i\u2026 c\u00e2nd v\u0103d c\u0103 ceva nu \u00eemi reu\u0219e\u0219te, m\u0103 \u00eentorc bine\u00een\u021beles\u2026 la manualul de utilizare.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
De multe ori \u00eemi spun: Dac\u0103 \u00eencepeam cu manualul de utilizare nu pierdeam at\u00e2t de mult timp s\u0103 \u00eel pun \u00een func\u021biune \ud83d\ude05.
\u0218i, de fiecare data \u00eemi promit c\u0103, la urm\u0103torul aparat nou voi \u00eencepe cu manualul de utilizare \u2026\ud83d\ude05<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Acum\u2026 de ce te-am \u00eentrebat acest lucru?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Te-am \u00eentrebat asta pentru c\u0103, de multe ori, \u00eemi dau seama c\u0103, dac\u0103 am folosi ,,manualul de utilizare pentru mintea noastra” sigur am avea rezultate mult mai rapid.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\ud83e\udd14Ne folosim \u00eens\u0103 mai ales tiparele scrise de ceilal\u021bi \u00een mintea noastr\u0103\u2026
\ud83e\udd14Ne lu\u0103m mintea \u00een serios mai ales atunci c\u00e2nd face tot felul de scenarii negative.
\ud83e\udd14Ne l\u0103s\u0103m mintea s\u0103 oboseasc\u0103 g\u00e2ndind iar \u0219i iar acelea\u0219i g\u00e2nduri f\u0103r\u0103 s\u0103 \u0219tim c\u0103 are nevoie \u0219i de momente de relaxare \u0219i f\u0103r\u0103 s\u0103 intervenim ca s\u0103 schimbam acele g\u00e2nduri.
\ud83e\udd14Permitem oricui sau, m\u0103 rog, aproape oricui s\u0103 pun\u0103 \u00een mintea noastr\u0103 orice.(G\u00e2nde\u0219te-te doar c\u0103 ne place s\u0103 ascult\u0103m \u0219tirile \u00een vreme ce noi facem tot felul de lucruri prin casa\u2026.)
\ud83e\udd14Nu d\u0103m aten\u021bie clarit\u0103\u021bii min\u021bii.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u0218i a\u0219 putea s\u0103 \u00ee\u021bi dau zeci de exemple \u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n
De obicei ne folosim acest ,,instrument” atat de performant pe care \u00eel avem la purt\u0103tor -mintea noastra – la o capacitate atat de mic\u0103 fa\u021b\u0103 de c\u00e2t s-ar putea\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Avem pe\u0219ti\u0219orul de aur la \u00eendem\u00e2n\u0103 \u0219i nu \u00eei cerem s\u0103 ne \u00eendeplineasc\u0103 nicio dorin\u021b\u0103\u2026.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
A\u0219a c\u0103 uite, azi, \u00een Duminica de vis, vreau s\u0103 te \u00eencurajez si pe tine, s\u0103 i\u021bi spun \u0219i \u021bie a\u0219a cum \u00eemi spun \u0219i mie: antreneaz\u0103-te s\u0103 \u00ee\u021bi folose\u0219ti \u00een favoarea ta mintea \u0219i emo\u021biile.
Asta face o diferen\u021b\u0103. \u2764\ufe0f<\/p>\n\n\n\n